She Went Anyway

There’s something quietly powerful about packing a bag, slinging it over my shoulder, and deciding that the world is still mine to explore.

For five unforgettable years, I traveled the world as cabin crew, and that’s when I first got a taste of international travel. Back then, the world was part of the job and destinations came and went, travel felt almost routine and I thought that was all there was to it. I believed travel was meant to be something you did when you were young. Before responsibilities. Before life settled into a rhythm. Before everything became… predictable.

But somewhere along the way, I realised the most meaningful journeys didn’t happen at 30,000 feet. They happened much later. After fifty and onwards. When confidence is quieter but stronger, when you’re less afraid to say yes, and when fear no longer gets the final say.

Now, for me, travel isn’t about ticking off destinations. It’s about rediscovering myself.

It’s about finally having the time to say yes.

Yes to that early morning hike when the mist still clings to the hills.
Yes to a spontaneous detour down an unknown road.
Yes to sitting around a campfire, laughing over stories that get louder and funnier with every retelling.

Yes to quietly watching a sunrise or sunset, doing absolutely nothing, and somehow feeling everything all at once.

There’s a freedom in this stage of life that I never had before. The pressure to prove anything has faded. The rush has slowed. What remains is something far more valuable with the ability to truly experience a place.

I notice more. I connect more. I laugh more easily. I’ve made friendships over shared cups of tea and coffee in small villages, on long drives along winding roads, and inside jokes born from the little travel mishaps that make every journey memorable.

And then there’s the part no one really expects: the adrenaline.

Somewhere between mid-life and “why not,” something shifts. The hesitation fades, replaced by a quiet boldness—a willingness to try things I never thought I would.

Skydiving in Slovenia (watch video below)

I’ve skydived in Slovenia, heart racing, wind roaring, laughing mid-air at the madness of it all. I’ve paraglided over mountains in Nepal, suspended between earth and sky, feeling weightless and infinite. I’ve white water rafted down the icy-cold Thrishuli River in Nepal, gripping the sides, drenched and exhilarated, shouting over the river like a teenager again. I’ve ziplined through forests, screaming halfway across with pure joy. I’ve ridden motorbikes along winding and dangerous roads, wind in my face, feeling freedom in a way that’s impossible to describe. I’ve climbed mountains, one steady step at a time, including reaching Everest Base Camp Tibet, proving to myself that strength doesn’t fade—it evolves. I’ve trekked the wilderness in Uganda in search of the Silverbacks, an awe-inspiring, humbling encounter I’ll never forget. I’ve kayaked down the Mahaweli River, letting the current take me into remote corners of Sri Lanka. I’ve dived deep into the sea in the Maldives, exploring a world below the waves that feels completely otherworldly. And sometimes, it’s something completely unexpected—like dogsledding through snow in Greenland, laughing like a child in a place I never imagined I’d be. I’ve even run a marathon, not to compete, but to finish, to feel, to cross that line knowing exactly what it took to get there. And through all of this, I’ve been lucky enough to visit 59 countries, each one leaving its own mark on me.

I don’t do these things to prove anything to anyone. I do them to prove something to myself.

That I still can.
That I still want to.
That life doesn’t become smaller with age—it becomes braver.

And whenever I doubted myself, whenever I hesitated or thought, maybe I shouldn’t, I could hear my daughter’s voice in my head: “Don’t limit your possibilities.” That little mantra became my compass, my nudge, my reminder that the only limits that exist are the ones I place on myself.

For anyone who has visited my home knows that this is my little haven – comfortable, familiar and wonderfully easy. But out there, on winding roads, in unfamiliar towns, under vast open skies, there’s a version of life that feels bigger. Brighter. More alive.

And once you’ve tasted that, it’s hard to go back.

For me, that’s why I travel. Not just for the destinations, but for the stories. Not just for the views, but for the moments in between. Not just for the escape, but for the return—richer, lighter, and a little more in love with the world than before.

Travel doesn’t have an age limit.

If anything, it gets better with time.

Walking the paada yatra
Six generations of hikers!

2 Comments Add yours

  1. Ranjit Ranaraja's avatar Ranjit Ranaraja says:

    After my own heart.

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  2. Unknown's avatar Anonymous says:

    That’s why you gel so well with Mihipedia!

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